The Spanko Experience?

I’ve had this post knocking around for a while and it’s been finished, so while I’m struggling to connect to kink, I figured it was a good time to roll it out.

A fetish is loosely described as sexual attraction to an atypical stimuli. There are all kinds of fetishes – spanking, of course, and feet, rope, panties, shoes, balloons, tickling, diapers – you name it, there is someone who derives sexual pleasure from it. Given the variations in what works for people’s heads, truly there are as many fetishes as there are for people enjoying them.

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Spanking as Sexuality

I have had this drafted for over a week, scheduled to post. I am obviously still going to since you’re reading this, but it will likely be my last post for a while. That’s not what I intended for 2025, but I need to take a step back from kink to process some personal difficulty and I would find it hard to write here, with how I am feeling. I may still be active on BlueSky and Twitter.

I got an anonymous question via my NGL link a few weeks ago that asked the following: “Is spanking sexual for you and sexually arousing, or is it your sexuality like Jillian Keenan?”

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