Bedtime Stories & Other Additions

I recently added a new page titled Bedtime Stories – this is a page under the “Kink Resources” menu that holds direct links to some of my absolute favorite spanking stories – the ones I keep coming back to. Some are newer, some are old “classics” from the Usenet days, but all are stories that speak to me in some way. I’ve left off demographic info like author, pairing, etc. I didn’t do this to be shady, but because if you’re here and you’re reading what I write and enjoying it enough to want to see what *I* enjoy, then I suspect you trust I wouldn’t share something alarming. All stories have info directly at the source with content, etc. so you can truly decide if you want to read them.

If you do, I’d love to hear what you think of my beloved favorites.

Other additions – I’ve added some new links to my main Kinky Resources page, mostly to blogs I enjoy, but this is likely to be divided out soon. I’ll probably have the main page with directions to the pages for My Toybox, the aforementioned Bedtime Stories, a page dedicated to the Reading Room section with blogs and other sites, as well as pages for my favorite Kink Shopping (implements, etc), communities, etc.

I am working on a post about my time spent as a spanking video model way-back-when, so look for that early this week along with Part 2 of Lending a Hand to Disobedience. Hope you’re having a great weekend and enjoying this preview of spring weather!

-M

Mismatch in Kink Partnerships

As it so happens, my last post was my 50th! Wish it had been something more meaningful than my return from vacation, ha! I started this blog in January 2024 with the hopes of re-building some sort of community and re-connecting with other people who share this thing we do, and get back to the sort of long-form writing I miss the most about the earlier online-spanking-community days. I think I’ve succeeded. There aren’t a lot of readers on a day-to-day but I know folks are here and engaged and that brings me joy and keeps me interested in writing and sharing – both of which are good for me whether there’s an audience or not.

Onward to kink mismatches…

Many people believe that if they partner with someone who shares their fetish, everything will fall into place – I was one of them, too! The reality was much different once I finally started searching for a life/nesting partner and started to explore connections with people I wasn’t perfectly aligned with, kink wise.

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Back into the Swing

I am back from vacation, where I had very limited internet access and only on my phone – which isn’t ideal for writing or blogging. I brought my computer but didn’t open it once! We were on a cruise to the Bahamas so there was very little privacy – cruise cabins not being known for their size, especially when there is a kiddo involved! We did get some grown-up time though, thanks to the kids club, and spent a lot of time in the thermal spa, relaxing in steam rooms, jacuzzi’s, and saunas. One evening, I even got a cheeky hand-spanking – posted a photo on Fetlife! Apparently, the skirt I’d worn that day was inspiring. Luckily, we hadn’t heard any noise on either side from other guests, so it felt safe enough. Especially when everyone seemed to be out at dinner. When he was done, he stood me in the corner on our balcony, to enjoy the view and admire his handiwork. It was a lovely little bit of connection and felt a bit naughtier than a hotel, but also safe. It would have been nice to get to play more with our alone time, but it didn’t happen.

Kink still feels far away in terms of fantasy/thoughts/dreams, etc but I’m trying to engage socially because it’s good for my soul and alleviates some of the depression and anxiety I am dealing with. Same with writing about kink. Eventually, it has to get better, right?

In that regard, I’ve got a few blog posts in the pipeline. One is about mismatches in kink with partners (mostly my own, but broadly, too), a part 2 to my story Lending a Hand to Disobedience, a post about the real-life application of orgasm control (this makes it sound more formal than it is, though) in my own relationship, and, well, a few others. I am most likely to post the one about kink mismatches first, since I’ve touched on it in several posts already.

Anything you’d like to see me write about?

-M