Bonus: I was on a podcast!

Oh oh oh! Also! In addition to my book round ups, I started the year off with a fun project, recording a podcast episode with the lovely folks at Sips and Smacks, on – among other topics – vintage ebony hairbrushes. Rex and Adalia were a lot of fun to chat with and I felt like I could have talked to them for hours. As it was, I talked for an hour with them! I am feeling very self-conscious about my rambling and hearing my voice on an audio recording like this, but I’ve been told I did a good job so I am choosing to believe that.

If you want to listen, you can do so on their website (linked above) or anywhere you typically listen to podcasts, or at Apple Podcasts.

I’d love to hear what you think!

-M

Mismatch in Kink Partnerships

As it so happens, my last post was my 50th! Wish it had been something more meaningful than my return from vacation, ha! I started this blog in January 2024 with the hopes of re-building some sort of community and re-connecting with other people who share this thing we do, and get back to the sort of long-form writing I miss the most about the earlier online-spanking-community days. I think I’ve succeeded. There aren’t a lot of readers on a day-to-day but I know folks are here and engaged and that brings me joy and keeps me interested in writing and sharing – both of which are good for me whether there’s an audience or not.

Onward to kink mismatches…

Many people believe that if they partner with someone who shares their fetish, everything will fall into place – I was one of them, too! The reality was much different once I finally started searching for a life/nesting partner and started to explore connections with people I wasn’t perfectly aligned with, kink wise.

Continue reading “Mismatch in Kink Partnerships” →