Last week (err a few weeks ago…errr a few months ago, sorry!!) I got back from a solo trip I took to the Netherlands that I have had planned since our mini-getaway in July. A scene friend planned a small house party to celebrate her 30th birthday and I accidentally invited myself. Whoops. Hey, she was amenable! I tacked on a few days at the beginning and end, for my first ever European solo travel. I spent the first 3 days in Amsterdam, the weekend in a small town to the north of Amsterdam, and the last 2 days in Haarlem. It was cup filling and fun and full of spanking! Note: there are lots of photos after the jump – both vanilla and kink.
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Summer Break!
Oops. Everyone needs a break, right? I didn’t intend to take a break from blogging for June, but it just sort of happened. I started two other blogs after I posted my May Book Round Up – one about bratting (and why I don’t like it – ha!) and one about my first spanking ever, because June 21 was the 20th anniversary of my first “adult” spanking, meaning a spanking from someone who shared my fetish. When I posted this on Fetlife and in a Discord I am in, it occurred to me, some folks who are married to vanilla’s may never get spanked by someone who shares their fetish, and my categorization could feel alienating. That is not my intention. I think perhaps “first spanking with my fetish in mind” would fit better, but it also happened to be with someone who shared it, so that’s an important designation for me. I’m not going to share the details in this post, but I will finish that one and get it posted ASAP.
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