Oops. Everyone needs a break, right? I didn’t intend to take a break from blogging for June, but it just sort of happened. I started two other blogs after I posted my May Book Round Up – one about bratting (and why I don’t like it – ha!) and one about my first spanking ever, because June 21 was the 20th anniversary of my first “adult” spanking, meaning a spanking from someone who shared my fetish. When I posted this on Fetlife and in a Discord I am in, it occurred to me, some folks who are married to vanilla’s may never get spanked by someone who shares their fetish, and my categorization could feel alienating. That is not my intention. I think perhaps “first spanking with my fetish in mind” would fit better, but it also happened to be with someone who shared it, so that’s an important designation for me. I’m not going to share the details in this post, but I will finish that one and get it posted ASAP.
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Back into the Swing
I am back from vacation, where I had very limited internet access and only on my phone – which isn’t ideal for writing or blogging. I brought my computer but didn’t open it once! We were on a cruise to the Bahamas so there was very little privacy – cruise cabins not being known for their size, especially when there is a kiddo involved! We did get some grown-up time though, thanks to the kids club, and spent a lot of time in the thermal spa, relaxing in steam rooms, jacuzzi’s, and saunas. One evening, I even got a cheeky hand-spanking – posted a photo on Fetlife! Apparently, the skirt I’d worn that day was inspiring. Luckily, we hadn’t heard any noise on either side from other guests, so it felt safe enough. Especially when everyone seemed to be out at dinner. When he was done, he stood me in the corner on our balcony, to enjoy the view and admire his handiwork. It was a lovely little bit of connection and felt a bit naughtier than a hotel, but also safe. It would have been nice to get to play more with our alone time, but it didn’t happen.
Kink still feels far away in terms of fantasy/thoughts/dreams, etc but I’m trying to engage socially because it’s good for my soul and alleviates some of the depression and anxiety I am dealing with. Same with writing about kink. Eventually, it has to get better, right?
In that regard, I’ve got a few blog posts in the pipeline. One is about mismatches in kink with partners (mostly my own, but broadly, too), a part 2 to my story Lending a Hand to Disobedience, a post about the real-life application of orgasm control (this makes it sound more formal than it is, though) in my own relationship, and, well, a few others. I am most likely to post the one about kink mismatches first, since I’ve touched on it in several posts already.
Anything you’d like to see me write about?
-M